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ALMOST 30, SINGLE MOM & DATING


I Should Be Holding You Today...
November 27, 2023 - Everyday is a brand new start of a pain never ending. Today is the day I should have given birth to you. This was my...
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 26, 20232 min read


Songs for Our Amelia (Songs to Heal the Heart of a Mommy of an Angel Baby.)
First, I'd like to say Thank You. It's been two weeks since the worst day of our lives. Two weeks of crying, anger, confusion and...
Amber Rodriquez
Jun 4, 20233 min read


Bigger Than the Whole Sky
“How very softly you tiptoed into our world Almost silently But a moment you stayed. But what an imprint your tiny little footprints Have...
Amber Rodriquez
May 29, 20235 min read
How do I deal with this?
The last few days, my oldest daughter has been extremely emotional. Both of my girls are anxious kids and I'm somewhat use to it but the...
Amber Rodriquez
Jan 10, 20233 min read
A Letter to My Ex in Song Lyrics
This one is for the ex that keeps talking about me and wanting my attention.
Amber Rodriquez
Jan 8, 20239 min read


Co-Parenting with a Difficult Ex
This one definitely isn't easy. It's something I'm constantly having to work on. I wouldn't say I'm an expert at it by any means. I've...
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 23, 20224 min read


Picking a man's brain.
Women, I did this one for you. I’ve currently selected 3 men to fill out a questionnaire in hopes to get some answers. These are some men...
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 22, 202212 min read


Tips on Dating a Single Mom
When it comes to dating, I feel like it is more difficult to date when you're a single mom. I usually only go out when the girls are with...
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 22, 20223 min read


It’s your loss…
I’m tired of him not being present for his own children.
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 21, 20222 min read
Me: I'm miserable. Friend: Stop doing that.
Okay, I’m the queen of negative thoughts about myself. I’m constantly wondering why I’m not good enough, why I’m not pretty enough, why...
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 13, 20224 min read


You Don't Have To Suffer In Silence
Why can't people understand that your mental health is just as important as your physical health? I was diagnosed with depression about...
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 12, 20229 min read


Colleen Hoover, I hate you.
Okay, I don't really hate her. She's probably my absolute favorite author right now, but why the hell do I wish the men in her books were...
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 11, 20225 min read


You Can't Do This Without Me
November 9, 2019 I had been contemplating leaving Jacob for several years at this point. I was tired of the constant fighting,...
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 10, 20226 min read


Cheater, Cheater
What do you do when you're cheated on? How do you define cheating?
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 9, 202210 min read


"I damn sure never would've danced with the Devil."
Okay, first off, I'm pretty damn sure Taylor Swift has some sort of magical ability to step into my brain and get inspiration for her...
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 8, 202212 min read
Fuck Cancer
May 10, 2021 was easily one of the absolute worst days I've ever had in my twenty-seven years of life. I remember I was lying on my bed...
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 7, 202210 min read
Co-parenting is worse than the divorce.
Decrees, new wives and alternating weekends, OH MY. When you're getting a divorce and going through your initial custody battle, no one...
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 6, 202217 min read


I have a lot of feelings...
I'm almost 30, divorced (so... single), a mom of two beautiful girls and I'm also dating in this crazy world. Almost 30 I was born in the...
Amber Rodriquez
Nov 5, 202213 min read
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